Whats right and/or wrong with this story?

It sounds like you and ray are really meant to be. Too bad it took so long to figure that out. You could try a long distance relationship, but based on your past it may not work out to well, sounds like there could be a lot of drama. I would suggest if you are both from the same town getting together on breaks and in the summer. If it is really meant to be you would probably be better starting a serious relationship after college anyway.